How to Build Better Relationships

                      How to Build Better Relationships

Finding love is something that we all desire in our life.  Most times in our attempts to 

find the perfect lover we don't.  Why is that?  We attract who we are and what our 

vibes or whether we're on a positive vibration or a negative vibration you'll attract 

people in the same vibration as you are in.  If you are currently in a relationship but 

things are a bit dull or you and your partner have lost its spark then you two need to 

evaluate what you  did before that you aren't doing now.  In the beginning of every 

relationship it be friendship or intimate relationship you'd do anything to make your 

friend or partner happy because you feel that they are an amazing person and you are 

very conscious of how you feel about them.  Over time what typically happens fighting, 

nagging, complaining, routines.  Over time we develop new habits with our partner we 

aren't in the present moment of how we feel about them and why we were attracted 

 by 

them in the first place.  When you become present and aware of how you feel about 

your partner you'll become more loving and like that old expression "give and you will 

receive."

Secret to Life

                               Secret to Life

What is the secret to life you ask?  As Tony Robbins has said in his seminars and 

books the secret to life is giving.  Why is that the secret?  The secret to life is giving 

because we've all heard the expression the more you give the more you get and that 

 

statement is completely true.  When you give something to someone that person will 

want to give something in return or something greater in value of what you've given 

that person.  Giving gives us a joy that you can't really obtain anywhere else.  When 

you give or donate you could be helping someone's life.  Think about that we all have 

the power to give to charity no matter what our financial situation is at the moment we 

could all stop spending money on useless stuff that we never use, and instead give 

that money to charity to help those in need.  

Don't Tell Me I'm a Hard Worker

                     Don't Tell Me I'm a Hard Worker

 

The reason i have a problem of people calling me or 

calling others hard workers is that everyone has their 

own definition of hard work.  Most people that tell you 

you are a hard worker are often the people who sit 

around and do nothing all day.  The most successful 

people aren't the hardest working people in the world most of them get to sit back and 

enjoy their financial freedom.  My suggestion to replace this phrase and tell people to 

not admire people's work ethic.  Don't just encourage them and go back to what you 

were doing encourage them and take action on your dream.

 

Don't be Dependent

                             Don't be Dependent

What is dependency?  Dependency is when you are 

controlled or you rely on someone that is not you.  Now why is this bad?  If you are 

dependent you don't take action on your own you wait for the "perfect moment" or you 

will only start if someone you are close to agrees to start with you.  Dependency is 

something that holds many people back because they are afraid of failing at their 

dreams alone they think if i fail as a group it's not as bad as failing on my own so they 

search for people like themselves that are just waiting to get started. I'll tell you all 

something don't get into a business with someone that's dependent.  If you are 

currently in a business where it seems like they aren't doing anything.  Either fire that 

person (if you can) or leave the company and start your own.  The people you are 

around the most shapes you into who they are so surround yourself with people that 

take action and are independent not dependent.

Levels of Personal Development

                       Levels of Personal Development

Personal development is something that 

will never run out of ideas and new 

theories it's a never ending process in 

becoming your greatest self.  This page 

will show you what levels of personal 

development there are. 


This is a picture of Maslow's hierachy of needs.  It represents what levels you must 

improve on in order to know when it's time to make the next step.  

 The bottom level of the triangle is your Physiological needs (breathing, food, water, 

sex, sleep, homeostasis,  excretion.) 

The second level of this picture represents you safety needs (security of body, 

employment, resources, mortality, the family, health, property.  )

The third level is your love/belonging stage(friendship, family, sexual intimacy).

The fourth step is your esteem levels (self-esteem, confidence, achievement, respect 

for others, respect by others).  

The fifth and final level is the self- actualization level(mortality, creativity,spontaneity, 

problem solving, lack of prejudice, acceptance of facts.  

And there you have it the levels of personal development now this is only a theory you 

can make your own journey or you could use this model but just know to never think 

that you know everything about personal development because it's a non stop process 

of learning. 

Know Thy Self

                                   Know Thy Self

 Not many people truly know what they like or who they are.  When i say know thy self 

i am saying that you should get in touch with what you like finding your purpose.  Just 

doing what makes you happy gives you a better connection and feeling towards 

yourself.  When you start to know yourself you begin to love yourself.  Not like a 

narcissist but more of a belief and more confidence toward yourself you won't put 

yourself down you'll encourage yourself when nobody else is.  Knowing yourself is 

very important if you don't know what you love and what your dream is then how are 

you going to live the life that you want.  In order to start knowing yourself and build a 

better connection with yourself you must take action and start learning and 

experiencing new emotions and activities.  Start looking if  you have any gifts or talents 

that you never knew you had.  Once you start looking you'll eventually find your way.

The Two Types of People in the World

               The Two Types of people in the World

There are two types of people in the world the first type of 

person is someone who lets their ego control their life.  

These type of people often look for short term pleasure 

rather than pleasure in the long run.  People controlled by 

their ego are closed to new ideas and get angry when somebody disagrees with him or 

her.  People controlled by the ego are usually haters they try and put people down if 

they are reaching a higher success than they are.  The second type of person is 

someone who controls their ego.  Someone who controls their ego is a person that is 

open minded and respects new ideas even if he or she does not agree with those 

ideas.  People who control their ego are more calm and spiritual.  When they see 

someone who's having more success than they are at the time they ask questions on 

how they did it or they encourage that person to reach an even higher amount of 

success.  Rather than someone who typically does things only for short term pleasure 

the person who controls their ego moves toward long term pleasure.  If currently you 

are someone who is controlled by their ego make the habit of consciously doing things 

of what a person who controls their ego would do.