Understanding Women Better

As a man i find it difficult at times understanding my partner.  It's as if we are speaking 

a different language at times.  Now if you're like me then you are making an effort to 

trying to understand women to create a better more loving relationship.  Or perhaps 

you are learning on how to attract the woman you desire into your life.  With that said 

let's get started.  

1. Women Will Test You 

2. Women Are Emotional Thinkers Men are Logical

3. Women Want you to Take the Lead

4. Women Want to be in their Feminine Energy 

5. Women Want to be Understood 

    

   Women Will Test You

   Women love men who are centered and confident and women can determine if 
   
   
   you are the guy they want by testing your inner strength as a man.  Your woman 
   
   
   will try and see what you will do and how you will respond.  If you fail these tests 
   
   
   then she will keep searching for a man that will eventually pass her tests and win 
   
   
   her heart.
   
   

    

   Women Are Emotional Thinkers Men are Logical

   If you have ever been in a fight with your girlfriend or wife and heard something 
   
   
   like "You never listen to me" or "You always make me sad." Now you have to first 
   
   
   begin to realize not to take what she says too personal women are on this wave 
   
   
   of emotions for one moment they could be saying i love you the next they might 
   
   
   be saying they hate your guts, but don't let that get to you this is one of her tests 
   
   
   to see how you will respond.  Now when a woman says that you never do 
   
   
   something men usually think of an occasion where they actually did do to prove 
   
   
   their woman wrong and try to calm them down.  Women don't want to hear what 
   
   
   you did in the past when she says that you never do something and you know 
   
   you have in the past what she's saying is that you hurt her now and you must 
   
   make it up to her or she's going to leave.  

    

   Women Want you to Take the Lead

   Women want a strong confident man that will take the reigns of the relationship 
   
   and create fun and loving memories.  It is the man's job to keep the spark going 
   
   in the relationship when you are on a date it is your job to make plans on what 
   
   you and your date are going to do and where you will go.  Your date just wants to 
   
   show up have a good time and connect with you.  
   
   

   Women Want to be in their Feminine Energy

   Women want to be in their feminine energy and they want a man who is in their 
   
   masculine energy.  The masculine energy is all about drive and purpose, and the 
   
   feminine energy is all about reacting.  If you want your date or your woman to be 
   
   in their feminine energy then make them feel absolutely comfortable with you and 
   
   the way you do that is by joking with them, listening to her, and just genuinely 
   
   caring about her.  To stay in your masculine side find something that you love to 
   
   do and be proud to share it with everyone that you know and meet.
   
   

    

   Women Want to be Understood  

   Now as a man when my partner faces a problem i immediately feel like it is my 
   
   job to try and fix her problem.  Now this may be the case for some circumstances 
   
   but for the most part women want you to just listen to what they are stressing 
   
   about.  To make sure on whether or not to be looking for ways to solve her 
   
   problem or to just listen before she starts getting in depth of what she's dealing 
   
   with ask her politely "Babe would you like my input or do you just want me to 
   
   listen"  and  in most cases she will respond that she will just want you to listen.

   
   

    

    

Two Things Humans Can Do

In this world there are many jobs and many things that we can do to give ourselves a 

living, but not all people are happy doing what gives them the life they have today.  

There are two things that make up our society and that is you're either living or you're 

dead.  Now i don't mean this literally what i'm saying is that when you're dead you're going through

 

life without any ambition you aren't following your passion and you're most likely living with regret. 

 

When you are living you are successful doing something that you love doing everyday.   Now if you

 

are in this case dead there is only one way to bring yourself back to life and that is to take the first

 

step into whatever your passion is.  The time is to act now become society's top 5%.  It is your right

 

as a human being to be happy and if you aren't happy doing something that you aren't passionate

 

about then you are eating away at your greatest asset: Time.  Take the first step because if you wait

 

you might be dead for the rest of your life.

How to Deal with a Breakup

Breaking up with your partner is an 

extremely difficult time for anyone 

regardless of 

how emotionally strong you are.  

Breakups happen to everyone so there 

isn't a way to completely avoid it but with 

these simple tips on how to deal with a 

breakup you can recover and get back to your normal self in no time!  

 1.Distance Yourself

I know that this is obvious but this really helps.  If you just dwell and look for 

opportunities to be with your ex you will have a longer and more painful breakup.  

Staying away from your ex will allow yourself to focus on making yourself happy and 

getting your life back on track.  

2.Get Rid of Reminders of your Ex

When you don't get rid of what reminds you of your ex you will constantly be reminded 

of what has happened to you and if you want to get over someone it's best to stop 

thinking about them and one easy way to stop thinking about someone is to get rid of 

reminders of that person.  Reminders of your ex could be stuffed animals, pictures, 

gifts, etc.  

3.Get Social

To get over your ex try and go to public events when you are ready to start meeting 

new people.  Places like malls, parks, or clubs are great ways to meet new people.   

You only have one life so i suggest to you that you don't dwell too long on someone 

who you didn't last with.  With time and persistence if you keep looking you will find 

your twin flame or soulmate.  

4.Give yourself Time

Every breakup is different give yourself the time you need to regain your focus and get 

your life back to where you want it to be.  Allow yourself to let out all the emotions 

flowing through your body.  Don't be afraid to cry.

 

Importance of Hand Gestures

Have you ever met somebody who can tell great stories?  Someone that can talk and 

describe something very vividly?  Chances are that people who can tell great stories 

and describe very well is because they are good with their words first of all but they are 

also using hand gestures.  Using hand gestures give people more of a sense of what 

you are telling.  People pay more attention to people who use hand gestures to grab 

 their attention.  Look up some famous people and watch them when they are talking 

and i can assure you that most of them or all of them are very good with using hand 

gestures.  Study the people you look up to and model how do they use hand gestures 

and if you can master that your speaking will greatly improve.  People will pay more 

attention to you and you will be able to grasp the attention of your audience.  Learn 

this skill and you will drastically become more descriptive and people will want to talk 

to you more as a result. 

How to Have Bullet Proof Confidence With 3 Easy Tips

Do you lack the confidence you wish you had?  Do you put yourself down after making 

a mistake?  Are you doing things that you know won't benefit you for the best?

  If so then this is the blog for you.  Confidence is something that people aren't born 

with it's something that you develop.  Confidence is a mindset and a valuable attribute 

for anyone.  A bullet proof confidence in yourself can make a difference from being an 

employer or an employee.  So with that said here are 3 tips to help you obtain bullet 

proof confidence that the most successful people in the world have.  

•  Surround Yourself With Confident People

  When you surround yourself with confident people their mindset and way of 
  
  
  thinking will become your mindset and way of thinking over time.  The Law of 
  
  
  Association states that the things or the people that you hang around the most 
  
  
  you become that.  If you hang out with a negative group of people you will 
  
  
  eventually become a negative person.  Take consideration of your circle of 
  
  
  friends and if you don't want to think like them get away from them immediately. 
  
  

  • Improve Your Posture

    Your posture says more about you than you really think.  People can quickly 
    
    
    judge you an assume.  In a second we can guess if a person is confident or 
    
    
    not just by observing their posture and how they walk.  Improve your 
    
    
    posture i have already written a blog on improving posture click the link to 
    
    
    check it out:  
      http://bradsinpiration.blogspot.com/2016/08/why-postureis-imporatant.html
    
    

    • Do What Scares You

       When you do what scares you you take control of your life and you 
      
      start to believe in yourself that you can do anything.  You won't have 
      
      fun doing everything that scares you but you will at least get to say that 
      
      you have faced your fear.  
      
      So here are some tips to have bullet proof confidence.  Remember 
      
      confidence is developed you can become confidence no matter what 
      
      your situation is.  Become the employer not the employee.  Become 
      
      your greatest self

    
    

How to Live a Healthier Life with 5 Easy Steps

Have you ever tried eating healthier just to fall back to your old eating habits?  

Have you ever tried working out but never saw the results so you just quit?  

Well the good news is that you aren't alone.  Many people want to change their healthy but 

seem to always come up short.  The reason that many people fail and go back to their old 

eating habits is because most people don't really know how to live a healthier life.  Or many 

people just aren't patient enough to see the results.  So here are 5 easy steps to living a 

healthier life:

• Educate Yourself on Health

Most people don't educate themselves on health.  Most people just try the latest fad diet later to 

realize it is nothing but a fad and it doesn't work.  You must educate yourself on your body what 

type of vitamins are you lacking from your body.  

• Exercise

So obviously you have to exercise everyday.  Not only do you have to eat right but you must 

exercise and get your body moving everyday.  Even if you don't have a gym membership or any 

equipment that's no excuse to not workout you can still do bodyweight exercises or go outside 

and just walk around your block.

• Positive Thinking

When you think positive it actually improves your mental and physical health because if you aren't 

putting yourself down and you're encouraging yourself you'll be able to keep going and reach 

your goal of having your ideal weight or your dream body.

• Cut Out What is Holding You Back 

When you cut out what is holding you back to living a healthy life you can focus on what brings 

you forward something that will allow you to make progress in your life.  

• Get Sleep

Getting sleep gives your body rest that it desperately needs all the wear and tear throughout the 

 

day you make your body go through such as when you workout your muscles need rest.  Find out 

 

how many hours of sleep you need in order to preform at your best.   

 

How to Overcome Procrastination with 3 Easy Tips

 Many many people in our day and age struggle with procrastination.  Constantly 

putting off work to do it later.  Lucky for everyone reading 

this procrastination is 

something that can be eliminated from your lifestyle.  

Procrastination is a habit that you develop by yourself or 

a habit that you develop  

because the people around you are procrastinators as well.

Here are 3 tips that will help you overcome procrastination:

Ask Yourself What Makes You Procrastinate  

Procrastination is a habit that you do subconsciously so when you disrupt the pattern 

of procrastination you can understand why you are procrastinating.  Once you know 

why you are procrastinating and what makes you procrastinate you'll be one step 

closer to procrastinating.

 Make a Schedule For Your Day

When you make a schedule for your day you are living in order.  If you accomplish 

everything that you scheduled for that day reward yourself and celebrate!  

Do It! 

 The only way to truly overcome procrastination is to actually do what you are setting 

off.  Make a commitment to yourself to overcome your procrastination.  

 Here are some tips on how to overcome procrastination.  If you overcome 

procrastination you will become more reliable, trustworthy, and valuable.  If you want to 

be successful get over procrastination and then you'll be able to reach your highest 

potential.

     

3 Ways to Attract Success

Everyone in the world dreams of being rich and famous, but the one's who do become 

the rich and wealthy have these characteristics that the average person does not.  

Here i will be listing 5 ways to attract more success in your life.

• Surround Yourself with Successful People

 I understand that many of the people in the world don't have any access to 

reach  rich and successful people face to face, but you can surround yourself with 

 greatness by watching videos of successful people and reading biographies so  

you can learn what they did to reach success.  

   

•    Think like the Best

 You don't have to be successful to think like the greatest.  By learning more on 

successful people and how they act you can develop a millionaire's mindset.  

Successful people think differently from regular people and that's what makes them 

 successful it's because they are different and they stand out from the crowd.  The 

more you stand out the more attractive.

•   Have Goals 

Most people don't set goals, but goals are extremely important to attracting success  

because goals are like your map to success it's much faster to find a place with a map 

rather than looking around and hoping to eventually find it.

When you do these tips you will set yourself apart from the majority of society and 

when you do this you become successful and valuable. Surround yourself with 

greatness, think like the best, and have goals.  If you do these three things you will 

attract more success.

 

How to Stay Focused

Many people suffer from procrastination or some people just can't focus on something 

for whatever reason.  Here are some tips on how to stay focused:

• Make a schedule 
• Do one thing at a time
• Find a compelling reason of why you must stay focused
• Become accountable for what you want to focus on by telling people about it 

When you make a schedule your brain can focus on what to do and when instead of 

just winging it and doing whatever whenever.  Most people who suffer from 

procrastination have it because they don't have a set deadline of when to get what 

they have been putting off for a while that they know they should be doing.  Most 

students don't do a project until the due date is very soon.  Why?  Because when the 

absolute deadline is near that's when they start working.  If you want to get rid of 

procrastination set a deadline earlier when it's expected to be done. 

When you focus on one thing you don't become overwhelmed and not as stressed.  

When you focus on one thing you don't feel rushed so you can put quality time into 

what you are doing.  

When you find a compelling reason of why you must get a task done you take action.  

When you accomplish something big celebrate you deserve it!

Becoming accountable of what you want to accomplish your circle of friends and family 

will support you and check in on you to see your progress and keep you on track.

When you become focused and make a schedule, find your why, and become 

accountable you will become more focused and you will accomplish more everyday.

Looking Down vs. Looking Up

People always tell you when you're sad don't be so down on yourself or why so down.  

Why is that ?  It's because looking down makes you sad.  If you observe at someone 

you know who is a person who is going through depression they are usually kinda 

hunched over and looking down on the ground as they walk.  Looking up makes you 

more happy.  Why you might ask?  It's because looking up allows you to have better 

posture and you feel happier when you look at the trees or the sky.  Try looking more 

up and observe your surroundings take the time to just look at all the trees bushes and 

flowers and you'll be surprised at the results. 

Stay Organized

Staying organized is very important when it comes to life.  If you have an unorganized 

website it will draw away customers from you to one of your competitors.  When you're 

organized you make life easier for you and your customers so make sure that you're 

organized!  Being unorganized can cause overwhelm and stress and i don't think 

anyone wants that.  Here are some of my tips on how to become more organized.

• Make a plan
• Get rid of what you don't need
• Make a schedule of the day 
• Focus on what's most important
• Make rituals

If you do these i guarantee you that your life will become easier and your customers 

would love the consistency when you make your life or business a ritual of what to do 

at a set time.  When your organized you'll appear more professional.  Being organized 

is very important for you and your reputation.  Don't let your business or your website 

have a reputation of being messy or complicated to navigate through.  Become 

organized.  Become professional.  Take your business or website to the next level by 

being organized! 

Why Posture Is Imporatant

Everyone of us has been told by our parents or by someone to sit up straight or don't 

hunch down.  Why is that?  Is it because it looks better than being hunched over?  

 

Well yes it does but sitting or standing straight is very important and not many people 

know the real reason of what happens when you sit or stand up straight.  The most 

successful people in the world have great posture and that's because when you stand 

up straight your body language is more dominant than a person who hunches over.  

Standing and sitting up straight can raise your confidence and you can get more 

attention for business or even meet some new people.  So what is the posture you're 

looking for?  Have your head straight as you walk shoulders back and push your chest 

up as if your chest is connected to a string to the ceiling.  Do the same while sitting. 

While having great posture doesn't just get you more attention and a pat on the back 

from your mom having great posture makes you feel better mentally and physically.  If 

you want to become successful then work on the little details like posture.  It has many 

benefits and perks.  Practice perfect posture everyday and it will pay off!

How to be More Productive

Everyone today seems to say the same thing "I don't have the time to do that"  that 

phrase can show you who's a good time manager and who's not.  Plus it seems when 

someone says that they don't have the time they are usually putting off something that 

they should be doing.  Now how do you have more time to get more things done?

• Estimate how much time you spend on useless activities (tv, texting, video games)
•  Limit your distractions
• Do what you must first then do what you want
• Make a schedule of what you will be doing and for how long

Once you do all those listed i promise you that you will have more time to do what is 

 

most important to you.  Take the time to make more time to do what you must do 

 

instead of what you want to do.  Turn your musts into a priority once you do that and 

 

finish what is a priority then you can relax and kick back on the television.  Become 

 

productive.  Don't be a person that says "i don't have the time to do that."  Become a 

 

role model for your family and friends.

The Differnence of Winners and Losers

                  The Difference of Winners and Losers

The difference of winners and losers is not the fact that winners just have more 

success than the losers it's more than that.  Most of the people we call "losers" they 

have been on the same path as all winners but there is something different that they 

did that the winners did.  When faced against with a tough stretch or when it seems as 

if you aren't making any progress losers typically quit.  Why is that?  It's because as 

Tony Robbins has said progress equals happiness.   The losers who are faced with a 

tough stretch don't see any progress so they aren't happy which makes them want to 

give up or try something else just once again to be in the same situation over and 

over.  Winners on the other hand do the complete opposite as the losers do.  When 

winners are faced with a difficult situation instead of quitting and going on to something 

else winners work even harder and have a vision of what they want out of what they 

when doing what they are doing.  A winner doesn't mean that he or she has always 

been the best a winner has failed more times than any loser.  Persevere through the 

tough times.  Have a vision and set goals.  Become the winner that you thought you 

would be when you were a little kid.

Leadership

                                     Leadership

   Leadership is an attribute that many people want to have in their life but the fact is

that most people are the one's following the leader.  So why is it that some people 

have this leadership skill and some don't?  It's because leadership is a skill which 

means you aren't born with it.  Skills can be developed and mastered.  Yes there will 

be others who are more talented when it comes to being a leader, but the point is that 

everyone can be a leader it's a choice to step up and gain more experience and 

wisdom of bettering yourself in that skill or any skill you want to develop it's a choice to 

master it.  You must learn what type of leader you are by truly looking at yourself and 

seeing and matching to make your custom brand of leadership.  Not many people 

today are leaders most people just follow the crowd and let life happen to them.  If you 

want to take control of your life and reach your full potential then i strongly urge you to 

develop the leader within you.  We need more leaders in our society.  Will you be the 

next leader?

Where To Find Your True Love

                        Where To Find Your True Love

 Everyone in the world is searching for the perfect mate 

the person to make them complete and whole.  Thinking 

about the characteristics of your perfect mate is easy but 

actually finding that person and having them have the 

same feelings you have to them to you.  So how do you 

find your perfect lover?  It's simple really.  All you have to do is find your purpose 

because isn't your purpose supposed to make you as happy as possible so when 

you're doing things that you love people will come into your life that love you and you 

will love everyone back.  Be aware of this though once you find your passion just 

because you find your purpose doesn't mean that you'll find your perfect partner in an 

instant over time continuously you will someday find that person.  When you find your 

perfect partner you will feel an indescribable joy that makes you feel so alive and 

grateful for every day you are alive.  If you want to find your one and only find your 

purpose be the best version of you and then your life will be fulled with love and all the 

hard times on your journey will be made worth it. 

The Cause of Addiction

                         The Cause of Addiction

There are many people in the world today suffering from 

some kind of addiction whether it be drugs, sex, or 

overeating.  All those addictions have some stuff in 

common.  My belief of the cause of addiction is that 

something in that person's life is lacking.  When 

something is lacking we search for an alternative.  If one 

is addicted to drugs it might be because he or she might be depressed or they don't 

have high self esteem that's why when that person does drugs it's the only time they 

feel good.  If someone is overeating then the problem might be stress or lack of 

creativity lazy people tend to not be very creative so that's why when people lack 

creativity they look for food because it makes them feel more fulfilled.  If someone is 

addicted to sex then that person may lack the feeling of love or had some kind of 

traumatic child experiences that made him or her that way.  Addiction all starts with our 

internal world when we don't like what we have at the moment most people turn to the 

alternative which later they get addicted to.  Change your mindset to not look for an 

alternative be aware of what you want and work on yourself to get exactly what you 

want never take a plan B we need more people like that and we need more people 

addiction free.

The Power of Affirmation

                          The Power of Affirmation

What exactly is affirmation?  Affirmation are phrases you repeat to yourself over and 

 over. 

  

Affirmation can either be positive or negative so be conscious of what you say about 

yourself.  Affirmations are extremely powerful because you become what you say and 

think about so if i constantly say to myself "I'm a millionaire" over and over sooner or 

later my brain will start believing what i am saying and it will give me a plan and i will 

start to begin to think like the most wealthy and successful men and women.  I'll give 

another example say that you would like to lose a couple pounds but every time you've 

tried in the past you lose a couple pounds but then later on you gain more than you 

lost and you just put yourself in an even more difficult problem.  In this situation try 

saying "I am fit" or "I am healthy" once you start saying this over and over to yourself 

your brain will want to live up to what you are saying.  You may want to join a gym or 

go for a morning jog and start eating more vegetables.  What you think you become 

what you act on is your lifestyle.  Remember this affirmations are not a one time thing 

and then you're unstoppable you must implant what you want to have for a period of 

time until it becomes who you are.  I suggest that you start doing affirmations for 30 

days for at least 5 minutes.  When i do affirmations i like looking in the mirror so it 

brings up more emotion.  The more emotion the better.  Thirty days can change your 

life but be disciplined and have a why to keep doing this even when it feels as if it isn't 

working but believe me eventually it will.